Everyone seems to be the expert on this. Thinking they know exactly what you need to do in order to get a hot girl to give you a second glance.
Truth be told, you are best to listen to what the experts have to say if you want to get that hot girl fast.
So you met this drop dead gorgeous girl but have no idea on how to get her to notice you, let alone like you. No worries, because you’re not alone. Most guys just don’t have the right take action steps to land the girl they want.
What you first need to be wary of is getting pushed into the dreaded friend zone right off the hop. It’s just about impossible to lose that label, so make sure you don’t let it happen. You need to figure out a way to let this girl know you like and want her and that’s that!
POINTER ONE – TONE YOUR WALKING SPEED DOWN A FEW NOTCHES
This is a slick trick to send her the vibes loud and clear that you are giving her your attention. When you slow your walking speed down beside her and exaggerate your body movements, you are showing her that you are in control and that’s magical when you are looking to snag a hot girl.
Confidence is everything when a girl is considering whether or not she wants to see a man again. Learn to use your body language to show, tell and hint to a girl that you want to spend more time with her if she’s open to the idea.
Also understand, there will be times when a girl just doesn’t want to venture there and that doesn’t by any means translate to something being wrong with you.
Stand tall, shoulders back with your head held high and slow your pace and you’re heading in the right direction.
POINTER TWO – DON’T BE AFRAID TO SHOW HER WHY YOU ARE UNIQUE
Before I get too deep into this one, I want to make it clear that if you’re going to play the ego card and talk about how great you are, you’ll be sleeping alone in your king size bed forever!
Seriously, one of the easiest ways to turn a girl off is to brag and gloat, so be careful please.
That said, it’s also important that you show her why she should hang out with you. Make sure she can see you’ve got some neat talents or hobbies and you’re the guy that’s worth her time.
Relationships are vested interests in each other and you both have to feel valued and appreciated for all that you are.
So try to slip your skills into the conversation naturally, just so you don’t come off as a bragger.
If she is interested in you at all, she will take notice and she will remember.
POINTER THREE – NEVER EVER BE QUIET LIKE A MOUSE
Newsflash – Loud boys don’t get very far with the girls. But you need to understand if you are talking too quietly, women will see this as you lacking confidence and that’s just not good.
So make sure you speak clearly and loud enough for her to hear you without issues. Understandably, nerves can get in the way so you need to practice talking in a slow and clear controlled fashion.
Breathe deep and take your time and you’ll do just fine.
POINTER FOUR – ALL EYES ON HER
I don’t mean this in a creepy way. But you do need to make sure she can see that your undivided attention is on her and only her. This means, no wandering eyes to check out the other girls in the room. Put your phone away and make sure you aren’t letting your mind wander.
Listen to what she’s saying and make sure you ask her questions and make her see you are interested.
If you want to get a hot girl, you’ve got to master this pointer.
POINTER FIVE – TEASING IS IN
Gentle playful teasing is an excellent route to a woman’s heart. If you hold back here, it might very well backfire on you because she will think you are ultra boring. Don’t let that happen. Take a chance and start lightly teasing her out of the starting gates.
If you don’t agree with something she says, don’t be afraid to tell her. No girl wants a “yes” man for real.
Plus, when you gently disagree with her, you are showing her you like her reactions and this can turn into a heck of a lot of fun. A great way to break the icy nerves.
Take note, girls are just naturally attracted to the funny guy. Give it a shot. You’ve got nothing to lose and everything to gain.
POINTER SIX – TAKE HER OUT FOR SOME SPICY FOOD
Experts say if you literally want to get a woman’s pulse racing, you should treat her to some spicy food. So take her out to a Jamaican or Thai restaurant and let the cards fall as they will.
What happens is the hot rush from these spicy dishes gets bundled up into her opinion of you. She will associate your presence with this great feeling and that’s all good for you.
Taking this one step further. Ancient beliefs support the thought that spicy foods trigger your sex drive because they indirectly release adrenaline. Talk about an awesome addictive feeling.
I’ll leave that one with you to ponder.
POINTER SEVEN – YOU SHOULD BE THE JOKE
There aren’t many people that are going to argue the fact girls love to laugh and having a sense of humor is one of the top traits a woman looks for in a man. Makes sense to me!
So make sure you show her you are easy going and perhaps a little bit goofy clumsy. Tell her about a few embarrassing times you’ve had. This shows her you are totally comfortable in your skin and that’s super hot attractive.
POINTER EIGHT – POSITIVE ATTITUDE
What you need to understand straight up is that a negative attitude will send girls running far and fast, no matter how cute you are or how much money you make.
The hot girls want positive energy that’s going to make them happier, not stressed and worried. So if you are a worry wart, you better put it away fast because that will not ever in a zillion years help you get the girl.
Show her you can spin just about any topic positive. Don’t let that negative energy bite your chance with this girl in the butt.
Talk about happy things and make sure you are paying close attention to make her smile inside-out.
A positive attitude and outlook on life in general will get you exactly what you want. End of story.
POINTER NINE – MAKE SURE YOU HAVE THINGS TO DO
If you want to start something truly special with a girl, you are going to have to show her you’ve got a life of your own. It doesn’t matter how badly you want to spend every second of every day with her, you just can’t show her that or she’ll be gone fast.
Trust me on this one.
And if your life is super boring, you are going to have to commit right now to change that. Start stepping outside your comfort zone, open the door of opportunity. Only then will you have the power to capture her attention and hopefully keep it.
Bottom line…The girls will come for you if you show them you are interesting. Dull boys be gone is all I’ve got to say.
POINTER TEN – HIGHLIGHT A FEW PASSIONS
Girls are drawn to passionate men, that’s just how it works. When you’ve got passion about something, you are showing her you care about loving life. This also means you are interesting and you know that’s fantastic.
If you happen to love working with wood, make sure you tell her. If you are passionate about traveling or animals, she’s got to know. The more positive personal passions you reveal, the better when you’re testing the waters to get a hot girls attention.
POINTER ELEVEN – HYGIENE IS PRIORITY ONE
If you suck in the hygiene department, you can kiss your chances with any girl goodbye. Women don’t want to be with a man that doesn’t take care of himself and just doesn’t seem to care about his appearance. Icky!
If you smell good and look good, she’s going to want more. In the least, she won’t shut the door in your face!
So make sure you shower, brush your teeth and hair, and put on deodorant and cologne to start. Put the cologne on your pulse points, a dab on the neck and wrists is perfect. Don’t overdo it though or she’ll be gasping for breath.
Just think about being stuck in an elevator with a woman that has overdone the perfume. Eek!
POINTER TWELVE – THE BF EFFECT
Like boys, girls want to feel useful too. The psychology behind the Benjamin Franklin effect is that when you ask a girl to do something for you, she’ll do it and mentally like you a little more.
I’m not totally convinced with this one, but who am I to argue with the experts?
In basic, when you do something for someone, the brain is programmed to tell you that you like them. Whether this is true or not is a whole new can of worms.
If you dig a little deeper on this one, you’ll discover the “consistency effect.” When keep doing things for someone, you will continue doing so because you don’t want to become inconsistent.
These don’t have to be large favors, just something small to make her feel useful and hopefully get addicted to you.
Time will tell with this one.
POINTER THIRTEEN – JUST BE HER FRIEND
This one is a little controversial because there is a difference between being her friend and getting kicked to the dreaded friend zone.
You need to be the man that’s going to do the things other men just wouldn’t do for her to make her smile. When you take action to make her smile, you are showing her you deserve to be her friend and more.
Just because you are different than the other boys out there.
So don’t be afraid to send her those early morning texts and check in with her just because. When you put the effort in, it will pay off.
POINTER FOURTEEN – BUST THROUGH THE TOUCH WALL
This subconsciously psychological pointer is going to help you score in oodles of different situations. Make sure you step over that line and touch her when you can. Touch her shoulder, give her a hug, put your hand on her leg.
Do whatever you need to in order to show her you like her.
Pay attention to how she responds and make sure you don’t overdo it.
Figure out a sweet handshake for the two of you. Anything that allows you to comfortably, in a non-sexual way, get your hands on her.
POINTER FIFTEEN – TRUST HER WITH DEEP DARK SECRETS
When you show a girl your vulnerabilities, she can’t help but love you. Think of something very few people know about you and tell her. Trust her with this information and you are showing her straight up that you are worth her time.
I would advise you to stay away from any secrets that might get you into trouble. Give her the innocent ones and see how it goes.
When a girl knows a man is trusting her with his secrets, that’s an automatic draw. You’ve got her hook, line, and sinker when you do this.
POINTER SIXTEEN – SPRUCE UP YOUR CONFIDENCE
This is your trick up your sleeve. When you show a girl you are confident, you’re way ahead of the rest of them boys chasing her. Girls are drawn to men that are confident. Not cocky, just confident.
Work on being aware of yourself and understand your insecurities. This just means you have the power to conquer them when you’re ready; and that’s only going to make it easier to grab the hot girl.
POINTER SEVENTEEN – MAKE HER SEE YOU AS A POTENTIAL LOVE INTEREST
When a woman feels comfortable around you, then you’ve graduated to a nice guy.
When she’s having an awesome time with you, then you are a great man.
If there happens to be a little flutter in her belly when she’s having an amazing time with you, then you are on the right bus to getting her to like you lots.
No doubt if you want to get a girl to notice and like you, you’ve got to play nice. What you need to be careful of is making sure you keep the relationship moving forward slowly but surely, so you don’t wind up as just another friend.
If you have a hot friend, make sure she never thinks of you as just a friend. If you ever want her to make out with you, she has to see you as something more, anything but just a friend.
In general, girls are okay with just being friends with a hot man but guys don’t think that way. Very few men are okay just keeping a sexy girl as a friend. Men want to test the sexual waters naturally.
POINTER EIGHTEEN – EASY ON THE SMOOTH TALKING
If you are a serial flirter, you will lose rank with the hot girls. When you are looking to make a girl like you, she won’t unless you stop trying to smooth talk everything walking by you on two legs.
Seriously, when you are constantly flirting, you are turning more women away than you’re turning on.
You don’t want to be labeled the perpetual flirter – Period.
POINTER NINETEEN – DON’T BE AFRAID TO BE SNEAKY
The art of making a girl like you involves making her think she is special. You need to treat her differently than you do other girls in order to do this.
If she feels special around you, then you are one step closer to showing this hot girl you want to be more than just buddies.
POINTER TWENTY – STEER CLEAR OF THE FLIRT AND YAPPING
A touch of innocent flirting is totally fine. However, if you are going overboard, you will wind up alone. Sure, it’s important that your women friends see you as a fun man who’s happy and confident. But you need to chill on the flirting with them and save it for that one hot girl you have your eye on.
Keep it discreet and make sure she sees the flirting card is only getting played with her. Talk about making her feel super special.
POINTER TWENTY ONE – DO THINGS FOR HER
This doesn’t mean you need to be at her beck and call but you should want to do things for this hot girl. Random acts of kindness go a long way in gaining the trust and attention of any girl.
Maybe it’s raining out and you know she usually walks home from work. Why not just show up and give her a ride?
If you know that she likes to eat lots of veggies, you should skip over to the supermarket and surprise her with a box on her doorstep.
What I’m getting at here is the more you do for her unexpectedly because you want to, the better.
POINTER TWENTY TWO – DO FOR OTHERS
The most direct route to a gal’s heart is by showing her you are compassionate and giving toward others. If you are volunteering for the Cancer Foundation or spending time at the retirement home or Humane Society, you’re going to be in her good books.
Girls love a man that has the ability to give for all the right reasons. When you are just volunteering your time to help others, you are certainly getting the attention of that hot girl you’ve always wanted.
Just don’t stop.
POINTER TWENTY THREE – BE ADVENTUROUS
Life can get boring pretty fast if you don’t step outside your comfort zone from time to time and go for it. Adventure is exciting and alive and hot girls love it! Don’t be afraid to go skydiving or climbing, or how about white water rafting or bungee jumping?
The sky is the limit and the more adventurous you are, the better when it comes to girls. Even if she doesn’t want to tag along with you, it really doesn’t matter because she will have a deep respect for you for all the right reasons.
And if you can persuade her to come alone so you can be her rock, you’ve just sealed the deal with the hot girl. Something to think about.
POINTER TWENTY FOUR – USE YOUR MANNERS
This goes without saying but if you want to get the attention of the hot girl, you are going to have to use your manners card. Please and thank-you are a given. If you pull her chair out and open doors, you are gaining brownie points.
Treat the people around you with respect and she will take notice. Every girl wants a man that has manners, even the bad boys. Just saying…
When you are focused on how to get a hot girl to like you, there are expert tips and tricks that are going to get you there faster.
Pay attention to her cues and follow the rules. It won’t be long before you get that hot girl and the rest is ancient history.
Best of Luck!