BDSM subculture is known to the people from ancient times. The earliest graphic image is found in Tuscany, inside the cave of Tomba Fustigation, where two men beat a woman with their hands and a stick during love games. BDSM is a psychosexual subculture based on the erotic exchange of power, and other forms of relationships affecting role-playing games: domination and subordination.

BD – bondage (restriction, bond, humiliation, discipline). It is a small amount of time with the application of practice and distribution of roles. Before and after entertainment – the partners maintain warm relations, equality. This period is characterized by education, fixation, and play.

DS – Domination, and submission is the inequality of partners. In this period there is a transfer of power, partly within the bedroom or to everyday life, which is rare.

SM – sadism, masochism – the pleasure of pain. This part of the game is based on pain, in the name of getting sweet pain, and both partners. Sadist – mocks, masochist – suffers. Fans of such sexual pleasures strictly follow the rules: safety, intelligence, voluntary consent.

Safety: when both sides of the barricade, make the maximum effort to maintain both mental and sexual health. Naturally, a sadist begins to study anatomical features and safety techniques – in order not to damage internal organs during sex games, not to overdo it with suffocation and not to damage vital vessels and nerves.

Reason: awareness of responsibility for the game, and for everyday life, you cannot mix these two concepts. For example, a dominant, before starting acupuncture, first trains on an orange and a chicken, then on himself, and only then experiments on a partner.

It must be remembered that BDSM is a subculture, absolutely

The opposite of domestic violence and sexual desire for security is the limiter in such entertainment programs is a stop word that only a masochist uses, and a sadist, in turn, must stop, otherwise, it is regarded as violence. The most commonly used method of traffic lights: “green” – continue, but a little lower, “yellow” – continue, but not much, “red” – stop.

What are the types of games?

  • Bastinado – beats on his bare feet, while his legs are immobilized.
  • Suction – restriction of mobility in quicksand, quagmire, viscous liquids.
  • Wax – droplets of melted wax drip onto the bare body of a slave.
  • Fire – use an open flame.
  • Petty, pony-play – submissive plays the role of a dog or a horse
  • Sensory deprivation is the deprivation of the use of the senses.
  • Facesitting is sitting with the genitals on the face of the partner.
  • Golden rain – dominant urinates on the bottom.
  • Fisting – inserts a brush into the vagina.
  • Flagellation – whipping or whipping.
  • Foot fetish – attraction to the legs
  • Erotic strangulation is sexual arousal when the carotid artery is clamped.
  • Baby play – submissive plays the role of a child.
  • Ballasting – strikes the scrotum, squeezing, stomping it.
  • Kant-basting – blows to the genitals.

The following tools are used for whipping: a whip, a whip, a flogger (a whip with several tails), a paddle (a wooden whipping plate), a stack is a thin cane with a piece of leather at the end user when riding, a cane and a rod. For fixing: bandage, carbine, horse, Spanish mare, leg cuffs, handcuffs, a collar is used.

Curiosity, the desire for novelty – this is what is missing in everyday life. Sadomasochism is an opportunity for the weak to become strong and cruel, and for the strong to relax. The majority believes that such a subculture is an addiction, an inferiority complex at the expense of which people they affirm and revenge for mistakes in their everyday life. Yes, addiction, but very voluntary.

Are additional features needed?

After all, their main task is to enhance the enjoyment so special protrusions, antennae or their analogues additionally stimulate the clitoris. Relief of the trunk in the form of venous relief, ribs, balls, etc. additionally affect the nerve endings of the vagina. The presence of suction cup allows you to attach the device to a smooth plane and allow you to expand the range of its use.

What size would fit me?

As the saying goes, it “does not always matter,” and is essentially a matter of taste for everyone. But on average, a mini vibrator is considered a device with a working length of up to 10-12 centimeters, a large one – more than 17-18 centimeters. Naturally, the average size is 10-18 centimeters. But nevertheless, it is worthwhile to focus not on these figures, but on your personal experience and the size of the penis of your partners.

And separately pay attention to the mini vibrators, the length of which often does not exceed 10 centimeters. Their peculiarity is compactness and mobility, and they give no less pleasure.

What material should a vibrator be made of?

There are many materials from which sex toys are made (gel, latex, silicone, cyber skin, PVC, plastisol, plastic).

Should I pay attention to the manufacturer?

It is of no small importance. After all, each of them has its own branded techniques that affect the price of products. Moreover, not all products of the online store are made in China. Most of them come from Europe or America.

Is water resistant required?

Of course not but its presence allows the use of a vibrator in the bathroom, shower, pool, sauna, etc.

What speed of vibration would satisfy me?

At the moment there is a large range of selection of pulsation modes and vibration intensity. The latter often even depends not on the characteristics of the motor, but on the power mode. At the same time keep in mind that the battery is better than batteries, batteries of type AA are stronger than type AAA and the more of them, the stronger the pressure. But this is not the golden rule. Naturally, a large range is displayed on the price, but can significantly expand the range of use. Beginners are advised to start with devices with a low or medium intensity of vibration that can guide them on how to stimulate a clitoris.

Is it important for me the volume of the motor?

Often the mode of operation of the motor is of great importance. There are devices that work absolutely silently, with minimal sonority or quite loud enough.

Which power supply is better?

Most often, vibrators run on batteries. Their advantage is independence from the presence of a permanent source of electricity. But the main disadvantage is the constant spending on the purchase of new batteries, although it is easy to decide on the purchase of batteries. If the device is running on battery, you do not need additional purchases, but you need to spend some time to recharge. Often in the latter case, the intensity of vibration is greater. A model that is powered directly from the mains is almost never encountered due to the great danger and inconvenience during their operation.

What kind of vibrator control will be convenient for me?

The nature of the control device is important. This can be a simple gradual switch using buttons, vertebra tugging or a smooth turn of the wheel. In this case, the control element can be located directly on the vibrator itself or on the remote control. In the latter case, you can transfer the furrows of the board into the wrong hands or master new postures for stimulation.